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Sex is like an Apple: Brad Wilcox

  And here we go. Today we actually only met once for class. And it was about Sex and how it applies to marriage and relationships. Now Sex is not a bad thing. It is a very beautiful thing that God gave us to connect us as Husband and Wife in our Marriages.  I will confess something. I have never had sex. So maybe I am not the best person to talk about this. However I’m still here writing so here we go. This Blog will probably bring more religious aspects into it than my oreviews blog posts. I hope that that is ok. God Loves us. Each one of us. Perfectly and equally. No one is above or beneath his love.  Whatever you may have done in life, good or bad, you are still loved. I know in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints there may be some fear talking so openly about sex. The Church is getting better about talking about it however. Sex is a good thing. Wow I said it. It is God approved. He wants us to have Sex if in the right circumstance. And God’s rule is Sex is only to be b

Engaged?

  As a missionary I was known to talk a lot about dating and marriage. I would say I love Love over the pulpit.  During a talk. I was something else.  This week we talked about the Engagement period in a relationship. Now as someone who’s biggest goal in life is to be a husband and father the engagement is no small thing. It is a big step into the future of the relationship. It is a massive commitment that takes courage. It also in this day and age will be shown to the world on social media. Which has its pros and cons. I like seeing people's engagement photos. It also makes it half to be this uber big thing. It is different for everyone. The Engagement should be special. Why is it so important though? Well engagement is a step towards marriage. And the time you are engaged is very important. It is a time to grow closer in so many ways.  It is time for you both to plan the wedding. Because it is not just the husband's wedding or the wife's wedding or the partner's weddi

50 First Dates: Starring Adam Sandler and Drew Barrymore

  This week we talked about dating. Wow Dating what a subject. Now I attend Brigham Young University Idaho. It has a nickname. BYU I do. As in marriage. Because people sometimes get married very fast in this school. I am not married yet. My biggest goal is to be a father and husband. SO that means I need to get married and need to go on dates. And hey I have been on some dates. Yes Sirrr. What makes a good date though. Why date? How long should you be engaged? Is Cohabitation a Good Precursor to marriage. These are questions. Now with my biggest goal as it is I also have a fear of a failed marriage. To be fair Divorce rates are not the lowest ever. It is a very real and prevalent thing in and out of the church. So what is a young currently single man to do? Well I should probably go outside for a start. But to be serious I think it means I just need to go on dates. Which I do sometimes. So I know a couple who dated for less than 4 weeks and got engaged and they are still married many y

Love One Another

  Hello Blog Readers of my Blog. This week was a week in my life. School is something else. Change is something else. Sometimes I feel on top of the moon. Other days it's not so much. That is to be human however. This class is called Family Relations. Family is so important to me. This week we talked a lot about Gender and Same-Sex Attraction. Look if I say anything offensive or hurtful. If I do, I am so sorry. That is not my goal. I want all people to know they are loved and appreciated.  We are all God’s Children. We all have infinite worth regardless of what people say. Gender. What a subject. We mostly talked about Gender Roles. Look I love family, For me it is important that everyone feels loved and appreciated. Children, Guardian, Spouse. Everyone deserves to be loved and taken care of. And being taken care of takes some monetary value. Traditionally it was the man of the house who would go out into the workforce and the mother would stay home. And hey if that works then heck